As many of you who have read my recent posts have apprehended, B and I are expecting a son at the end of November. Everything we do is geeky, so why would having a baby be any different?
One of the most exciting things for me so far has been the sonogram. For my research job, I often look at echocardiograms, that is, sonograms of the heart. I was so excited that they could see the baby’s heart movement; it looked just like the images I study to calculate heart function parameters. Although the technician kind of laughed when I told her what machine we use to take the sonograms; it was the same kind she’d used when she first trained decades ago. That’s research for you.
Right now, B and I are trying to decide on a name. Naturally, we have several from Star Wars in the running:
Which is your favorite? B tried to throw in some Star Trek names, like “Tiberius” and “Montgomery Scott,” but I nixed those. Sorry. Any other suggestions with a geeky/nerdy theme?
I will be honest, I don’t know how this blog will change once I have a kid. Though I will be taking some time off from work, I am not planning on quitting my 9-5 research job, which will likely mean reduced writing time. I may only be able to do one post a week, or likely even fewer. And I’m sure a few mommy-type things will pop up here from time to time, but right now I don’t have any plans to completely change my blog theme of geeky/nerdy stuff.
We’ll just have to wait and see. I hope you’ll all stick with me through what is possibly one of the biggest life changes imaginable!
Our late-summer selection for GNBC, hosted by GeekyNerdy Girl, is Carrie Fisher’s memoir Shockaholic.
Right from the dedication (to her daughter and the former president) you can tell this book will be entertaining.
This short memoir actually reads more like a series of essays than a chronological life story. I ended up really liking the format because it was easy to pick up and put down. Each chapter is a different topic, ranging from her family and friends to her mental and physical health. There is very little mention of Star Wars at all.
Of course, I was expecting some discussion of her struggles with mental health, because I know she was a great advocate on that topic, but it is really only covered directly in one chapter. However, I do think it was such a big part of her life that it bleeds over into everything she talks about, especially her family.
Carrie Fisher clearly had a unique sense of humor. I actually put this book aside for a few days when I started, because it can be pretty dark humor at times and I just wasn’t in the mood for it. But as I kept reading, I really appreciated it and laughed out loud a lot. I thought the funniest story was when she went to dinner as a young woman with some senators in DC. She refused to be intimidated by them, and I was totally cheering for her as she held her own with inappropriate humor.
I also really loved that there are personal pictures throughout the book. And the captions are hilarious, rarely pertaining to the picture at all. Instead, they sound like a historical documentary. For example, her friend Michael Jackson reading her memoir is labeled as Harry Truman playing golf.
I didn’t know much about her family prior to reading this book, so learning about her famous parents, Debbie Reynolds and Eddie Fisher, as well as Eddie’s wife Elizabeth Taylor, really helped me understand her better. She had such a unique perspective on fame, having grown up around such famous people; this seems to be one reason she was able to understand her friend Michael Jackson so well. In fact, she was an extremely self-aware person, and this comes through in all her writings.
Reading this memoir in light of her death last year was interesting, considering that a good part of the book deals with remembrances of other people after their deaths, including her father, stepfather, Michael Jackson, and another close friend who OD’d basically right next to her. It definitely leads to a sense of one’s own mortality, and feels very poignant now that she’s gone, too. As I said, she was very self-aware, and left us this thought:
What you’ll have of me after I journey to that great Death Star in the sky is an extremely accomplished daughter, a few books, and a picture of a stern-looking girl wearing some kind of metal bikini lounging on a giant drooling squid, behind a newscaster informing you of the passing of Princess Leia after a long battle with her head.
It was a battle she continued to fight until, and even as, she died, and I think, as does her daughter Billie, that she would want to continue to be open about that battle no matter the results. She was used to living her life for others, and she continues to do so even in death as an icon, not just in sci-fi, but also for those of us who also fight mental health battles.
Welcome back to our Star Wars coloring book club, where Kiri at Star Wars Anonymous and I color the same image every month to compare and contrast.
This image has always cracked me up because it looks like Han has flowers instead of legs.
I kept the main colors in blues and reds to kind of match Han’s clothing. The red bands kind of reminded me of the Corellian Bloodstripes on his pants. According to Legends/EU, there are two kinds of Bloodstripes, and Han won both.
One story was that he won one set for rescuing his Wookie pal Chewbacca from Imperial slavery. I don’t think anything official has been said in the new canon for how he got the Bloodstripes, but I’m interested to see if they will address this at all in the upcoming Young Han Solo movie.
Also be sure to check out Kiri’s interesting study of Han’s color energies here!
Next month we’ll be doing a Boba Fett mandala:
So I recently went on a months-long Regency Romance kick. It’s been a wonderful escape from everything going on in my life and in the world.
The “Regency” period refers to a time in the early 1800s when Britain was ruled by the Prince Regent (later King George IV), because his father George III was deemed unfit. (This era also includes the Napoleonic Wars.)
Jane Austen is of course one of the most famous authors of the Regency period, and I have read all six of her completed novels many times (my favorites being Persuasion and Pride and Prejudice). So it’s no surprise that in the twentieth century a whole genre developed around writing similar novels, now as historical fiction.
Georgette Heyer essentially created the Regency romance genre, doing meticulous research to provide readers with accurate information about the period, using the same phrases people of the time would have used, and with the same worldview. This has spun out into a large, varied genre whose books have varying degrees of historical detail, humor, intrigue, sex, and even sometimes a little magic.
As I said above, for Regency Romance, there is no better place to start than the works of Georgette Heyer. I am currently working my way through her thirty-some historical romance novels, and there are so many things to love. She comes very close to Jane Austen in her dry wit and love of the ridiculous in her characters. I am constantly laughing as I read them. I love that she writes with such historical detail; I’ve learned so much about the culture of that time.
I also love that she has many varied plots and characters: she has some Gothic novels, some mysteries, settings in London and in the country, main characters that are young and silly, or older and more sensible, couples that have known each other forever or have just met. Her romance is very clean, usually with some kisses at the end.
Here are a few of my favorites so far:
The Grand Sophy: The second of her novels that I read, and the one that got me hooked. Sophy is a tour-de-force main character, the kind of person that can manipulate everyone around her into doing what’s best for them. The ending gets a little ridiculous, but it’s so funny you won’t care.
The Quiet Gentleman: I liked that this one has some mystery in it as well as romance; the main character suffers several attempts on his life after returning home to claim his inheritance. It was pretty easy to figure out who the culprit was, but I still enjoyed it. I also liked that the heroine is very unromantic and sensible—a girl after my own heart.
Bath Tangle: This novel features several couples, all with varying (but entertaining) personalities, and it is set mostly in Bath as the title implies. I really enjoyed the interplay between as the characters as they all struggle to figure out what they really want.
The Alastair-Audley series: The three main books in the series (These Old Shades, Devil’s Cub, and Regency Buck) are absolute classics. The heroes are not always particularly likeable, but the heroines are always capable of handling them. These books probably have the most history in them, too, dealing with many important figures and events of the day. The first two are actually set in the Georgian period just before the Regency which gives the series even great scope.
Lester Family series by Stephanie Laurens
The Reasons for Marriage • A Lady of Expectations • An Unwilling Conquest • A Comfortable Wife
This is a series of “reformed rake” stories all centering around one family. It’s not really necessary to read them in order, but I liked that they were all connected, and many of the same characters appear throughout.
The first book, The Reasons for Marriage, was probably my favorite. It features an apparent marriage of convenience that turns into something more. I particularly liked that the heroine Lenore was intelligent, independent, and even a little introverted; her eventual pregnancy is also part of the plot, which resonated with me currently.
These are actually the first Harlequin romance novels I have ever read, and I was surprised how much I enjoyed them. Though more racy than Heyer’s novels, they are fairly tame in terms of adult content.
I also started reading Laurens’ Cynster family series, and those are much more explicit in a bodice-ripper style. As I told my husband, I was 7% of the way into the first book and there was already a hot shirtless guy running around. For reasons. Anyways, the Cynster books are not as much my cup of tea, but also feature some entertaining characters.
Love, Lies, and Spies by Cindy Anstey
I loved the intrigue and adventure in this recent, lighthearted YA romance. It was just wonderfully fluffy and charming. I also loved that the heroine Juliana is a scientist trying to get her work published!
The book was nothing particularly groundbreaking, but it was entertaining from the very first chapter. The main couple was very cute. There was quite a lot of stuff like Miss Telford had very nice eyes and a nice smile but Spencer wasn’t going to think about that right now.
The author also published another YA Regency title this year, Duels and Deceptions, which I have on hold at the library and hope to read soon.
Now…onto the magic!
Newt’s Emerald by Garth Nix
On my quest to read more of the authors from the twisted fairy tale anthology I enjoyed last year, I uncovered this gem (pun slightly intended).
This one has all of the charm of a Regency romance, plus dangerous magic, adventure on the high seas, and assumed identities thrown in, too. It was a wonderful mix of genres; I think it leans a little YA also.
The first chapter, in which Lady Newtington’s (Newt’s) emerald is stolen, read a bit like a short story, and then the rest of the book kind of goes off in a different direction in searching for the emerald, with a bit of shift in tone. It was a little weird, but the book was so entertaining it didn’t bother me much.
Shades of Milk and Honey by Mary Robinette Kowal
This is the first in a series about a family of sisters that have some talent for glamour, aka magic, which is kind of considered a womanly art. I really, really liked how the concept of illusionary magic was done here; it was interesting and could easily be explored further in the series. Although the tone is more adult, I don’t recall anything more than a bit of kissing.
However, the characters and plot were rather average. I read this several months ago and can’t even remember all that much about it. The heroine Jane was interesting enough, but I did not take to the hero at all, finding him at turns boring and confusing.
So, in short, I don’t plan on reading any more of the series.